Discussions before Feb 13, 2022:

ME

Which has a better chance of conception, targeting the day of ovulation or having intercourse multiple times a week?

I am a 30-year-old woman and have been married for one year. I'm trying to conceive, but I haven't been to a fertility clinic yet. I often hear that it is easier to get pregnant if I have intercourse on the ovulation day. However, which is easier to get pregnant, having sex only on your ovulation day or having sex as often as possible?  I simply thought that having sex more often would make it easier to get pregnant, but my husband says that having sex every day is not a good idea because it thins the semen. I have a feeling that it will be harder to get pregnant if semen stays in testes too long, but how often should I have sex (how many times a week) to have the best chance of getting pregnant?

Feb 13PE1 answer
MA

I am a 33-year-old woman who has never reached orgasm. What should I do?

I have dated and had sex with 5 men so far, but I have never reached orgasm. I always act as if I reached orgasm as my boyfriends expect me to feel good. I am not sure what to do to feel orgasm during sex.

Feb 13CH1 answer
JO

Where can I do an STD test in Singapore?

My partner just got tested and found out that he has STD. Where can I test for STD in Singapore anonymously?

Feb 13ALGR2 answers
LI

What are the characteristics of a sexually addicted woman? What causes sex addiction and how does it differ from just having a high sex drive?

I feel I am addicted to sex. What is the definition of sex addiction? Any medication to cure if I am addicted?

Feb 13GR1 answer
MA

What should I do to heal from the trauma of sexual violence?

When I was in primary school, I was sexually harassed by my older brother. Perhaps because of this, I have an aversion to sexual intercourse. Even when I go out with someone, I feel uncomfortable when they make sexual moves on me, and it doesn't last. What should I do to heal from the trauma?

Feb 13GRCH2 answers
BA

Do men like women with large breasts?

I have my small breasts. Do men like women with large breasts? Will the person I like to be attracted to me if I have large breasts?

Feb 13GR1 answer
HA

Why can't I get or stay hard?

Every time when I have sex, I ejaculate in 3-5 minutes. What should I do to keep it hard longer?

Feb 13PE1 answer
JA

Which fertility clinics are recommended in Kuala Lumpur?

I have been trying to conceive for 2 years, I am thinking to start seeing a fertility doctor. I live in Kuala Lumpur and would like to know recommended clinics in the area.

Feb 13IR1 answer
HA

Any good way to reduce pain during sex?

I have been having pain during sex. It was extremely painful for the first intercourse, but I thought it would be better over time. However, I still feel more pain than pleasure during sex. I actually have been to the doctor to check up on what is wrong with me, but there was nothing wrong. Any suggestion on how to reduce the pain during sex?

Feb 13AN1 answer
KE

What is the best place to test STD in Seattle?

I am based in Seattle and I want to go STD test. Any suggestions?

NA

What should I do when I suspect sexual abuse to my neighbors in Honolulu?

I have good friends from my neighbor, and she is 7 years old. She has shared with me that her uncles touch her private place and he tried to do it even further. She was not aware of sexual abuse as she may be too young to understand it. I think the first thing I should do is to talk to her parents, but anything I can do for her to add to it?

WA

Is it possible to use condoms again?

I use condoms regularly, but I feel it is wasted every time I throw them away. Is it possible to use it again?

Feb 04PHDR2 answers
JE

I want to experience spermarche as soon as possible.?

At school, my classmates are saying things like "I got it out". Frankly speaking, I want to experience spermarche as soon as possible. What should I do to experience as soon as possible? What can I do to speed up the process? (Will it come?). I know that the timing is different for each person, but I feel frustrated.

Feb 04PE1 answer
KE

Should I operate on my foreskin right away?

I have a foreskin. When I talked to my male friends about it, they started to tease me saying, "He has a foreskin. I feel like girls know about my foreskin and avoid me. Is it bad to have a foreskin, or is it something to be ashamed of? Should I get an operation right away?

Feb 04PEIR2 answers
MA

My boyfriend dumped me after telling him I might have gotten pregnant. What should I do?

After having sex with my boyfriend, I didn't get my period, so I texted him that I might be pregnant. He replied with a single word, "Sorry." I called him, but he didn't pick up. What should I do if I'm pregnant? I don't feel comfortable telling my parents either.

Feb 04GR1 answer
JO

As a woman, what are your favorite sex positions?

Just curious and keen to know what positions when having sex.

Feb 02JU1 answer
SO

Any good tampons that doesn't spill while I am doing cheerleading?

I do cheerleading and my school's costume is white pants. Last month when I had a performance, so I wear huge napkins to make sure the blood doesn't come out. However, one of my teammates told me she could see my napkins from the costume. I am looking for tampons to wear when I do cheerleading, but I am not sure which brand is good enough for cheerleading. Any advise?

Feb 02JU1 answer
VI

What's the right age to start having sex?

I am 15 years old. It's been said that you can't drink until you're 21, and you can't vote until you're 18, but at what age is it okay to have sex? No one will tell me.

Feb 02ANAL2 answers
JO

Is it normal to come multiple times?

I am a housewife. My husband and I have had sex about six times recently, about once every two weeks. Before that, we hadn't had sex for three years, but I started to ask him out. All of a sudden, I had never come before...but when it was over, my body would not stop shaking and I would feel good over and over again. It took me a while to understand that this was a light orgasm, but I figured it out. I think I came total 10 times, is this normal or something wrong with my body?

Feb 02AL1 answer
IR

Until when can I still have an abortion in Malaysia?

After becoming pregnant how long I can wait before I have an abortion in Malaysia?

Feb 02AL1 answer
DI

Can I get pregnant just after my period has finished?

I just had sex with my boyfriend and it was just after my period has finished. He didn't wear condoms and I don't take pills. But I believe the pregnancy happens only on ovulation day which is 14days after the period, so is it safe to have sex without condoms?

Feb 02AL1 answer

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